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Westby, Erika

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"Public schools, as government institutions, must be religiously neutral. They must be neutral among religions, and they must be neutral between religion and nonreligion." -http://worldvieweducation.org/neutrality.html

 

 

Authentic Voice: Richard Russell

 

Richard S. Russell has spent his whole life 2 steps ahead of the baby boom. A single guy now retired from a career as an analyst at the Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction, he spends his spare time doing pro bono database development for various non-profit organizations using the excellent FileMaker Pro software. His hobbies include atheism, science fiction, ballroom dancing, basketball, Macintosh computers, liberal politics, social justice, movies, shoveling snow, and humor. His favorite religion is the Green Bay Packers; his least favorite religion is a 50,000-way tie. A lifelong Badger Stater, he says "Madison has to be great, since people are willing to put up with the winters just to live here." He is a geek and too naive to be embarrassed about it. His motto: "Lead me to those who seek the truth, and deliver me from those who have found it." His most recent pithy insight: "I'm a middle-aged, middle-class, middle American, white, college-educated, Anglo-Saxon, straight, monolingual, gringo male. The world is optimized for people just like me. I've spent my entire life voting against my own self-interest and am damn proud of it!"

 

 

Summary

“Atheist students, like atheists in the broader society, are often stigmatized as immoral, evil, or god hating. Because of this stigmatization, it is common

for atheists to hide that aspect of their identity, rendering them invisible. (Goodman & Mueller, 2009)”

Atheists are the least trusted segment of the population, ranking below Muslims, recent immigrants, and gays and lesbians. (Martin, 2011)

 

People on both sides of the religious spectrum urge that schools need to do a better job educating our children about religion. Young people need an outlet to be able to learn about and discuss different religions and non-religions, just as they need to be able to learn about and discuss different cultures. These topics are rarely discussed in public schools in the United States because of the organization of curriculum and the public attitudes towards religion in public schools. (Noddings, 2008)

 

Some schools may offer classes like “World Religions,” but the focus may be too superficial.  “Although students may emerge from such courses with a better historical sense about religions and a commitment to religious tolerance, they remain largely ignorant about the varieties of unbelief and have little or no tolerance for atheism or agnosticism. Christians, Jews, and Muslims learn to “tolerate” one another, but unbelievers remain beyond the pale. (Noddings, p. 2)”

 

We need to create a framework for discussing values, morals, authenticity, connectedness, etc. with all of our students.  Can we address these issues within our curriculum? If we can provide an opportunity for all religious and non-religious voices to be heard, we can provide support to students that are feeling marginalized because of their beliefs. We can also challenge the students in the “dominant group” to learn about new perspectives and give themselves an opportunity to view the world from a different point of view.

 

It is clear that, because of the separation of church and state, public schools cannot invite clergy into the school to lead prayer or sponsor any devotional activities. Some schools have tried to get around this by promoting prayer through student leaders. As far as student-led prayers go, McCarthy stated “in 2000, the Supreme Court invalidated a Texas school district’s policy that authorized elections to determine whether student-led devotionals would be delivered before public school football games.The Court concluded that such expression at a school event on school property and representing the student body under the supervision of school personnel could not be considered private speech. (pp. 2-3)” Yet some schools still manage to allow these practices to go on. Is is enough just to allow students to 'opt out' of these practices? Isn't it harmful to promote such exclusion in our schools and school-sponsored extracurricular activities?

 

Atheist students tend to be cautious about whom they share their perspective with because they do not want to offend others or make them uncomfortable. Nor do they want to be put in the position of having to defend their worldview. To avoid undergoing the marginalization and stigmatization that many atheists encounter in today’s society, they choose to remain invisible. Students that ‘come out’ as atheists can end up being bullied and despised for their beliefs. Many people just don’t understand what atheism is, so they make false assumptions based on a lack of information.

 

It is our responsibility as educators to create an environment that encourages atheist students to come forward and share their views. That will require reconsidering atheism as simply another perspective for exploring purpose, meaning, and morality.  A first step is to learn more about atheism, including its history and varied definitions. As people begin to learn about atheism, the frequency of misconceptions will become more evident, as will ways to counter those misconceptions.

 

Resources

Goodman, K. M., & Mueller, J. A. (2009). Invisible, marginalized, and stigmatized: Understanding and addressing the needs of atheist students. New Directions for Student Services, (125), 55-63. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.   (PDF text link)

 

Greenhouse, L.  (2004, June 15). 8 Justices Block Effort to Excise Phrase in Pledge. New York Times  (Late Edition (east Coast)),  p. A.1.  Retrieved April 3, 2011, from ProQuest Newsstand. (Document ID: 651092291).   (Link to Full Text) 

 

Jones, R. (2001). The Boy Scouts and Discrimination: Be Prepared!. Education Digest, 67(1), 62. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.  (PDF text link)

 

Martin, G. (2011). Get Thee to a Nonery. California Magazine: Articles of Faith. 

     Retrieved from: http://alumni.berkeley.edu/news/california-magazine/spring-2011-articles-faith/get-thee-nonery

 

McCARTHY, M. (2009). Beyond the Wall of Separation: Church-State Concerns in Public Schools. (Cover story). Phi Delta Kappan, 90(10), 714-719. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.  (PDF text link)

 

Noddings, N. (2008). The New Outspoken Atheism and Education. Harvard Educational Review, 78(2), 369-390. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.  (Link to Full Text)

 

Schools May Not Coerce Students To Pledge Belief In God, AU Tells Court. (2004). Church & State, 57(3), 19. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.  (PDF text link)

 

 

Check out the Discussion Questions!

 

 

 

Link to Erika Westby's biography

 

 

Comments (35)

Dan Morrison said

at 9:46 pm on Apr 1, 2011

After listening to Lennon, I have a loaded question - explain how an atheist world would be a more peaceful world, or would it not be any different? Self-interest is still self interest whether or not it is in the name of religion. What are the guests views on this. I am being curious and probing, not confrontational.

Erika Westby said

at 9:07 pm on Apr 3, 2011

I don't believe that the song is saying specifically that an atheist world is a more peaceful world. The main message that I get is that if you can imagine that all of those things that divide us (religion, possessions, politics, country borders, etc.) didn't exist, then maybe you can imagine a world that we all share peacefully together. It's not realistic to think that all of these things can go away or that people would magically be peaceful without them, but just imagine a world where they never existed...

David L Zuck said

at 10:32 pm on Apr 7, 2011

I don't think he's calling for an atheist world or that he is even calling for us to give up gods, possessions, etc,... I think he is sorta asking us to do what James Carroll is asking... that when we deal with people that we leave our shadows laying. For example, I view the no possessions as being more like make your decisions without being motivated by greed factor.

Richard S. Russell said

at 1:16 pm on Apr 16, 2011

Here's a great graphic that builds on Lennon's theme:
   http://raycastle.typepad.com/raycastle/2010/09/imagine-no-religion.html

I think you're missing the point, Dan, when you lay the blame for violence at the feet of self-interest. It certainly is not SELF interest that leads to suicide bombing (or even tithing, to quote a much less pernicious example). On the contrary, it's self-abnegation which leads to such actions, the sense that one's own self is somehow unworthy or inferior, and the only way you can gain meaning or be personally significant in this life is to subordinate yourself to some greater cause. Religion has always stood at the ready to claim the allegiance of such self-doubting, insecure people.

Does religion in and of itself lead to violence? Clearly not, as the vast, overwhelming majority of religious people are just as nice as you and I and equally horrified at all the slauters, pogroms, terrorist attacks, suicide bombings, crusades, inquisitions, witch hunts, etc. that have historically been conducted in the NAME of religion. But, while religion itself is not necessarily the motivator for such actions, it's clearly available as a VALIDATOR of them, for those who are so inclined. Hitler couldn't have waged his holy war against the Jews if he hadn't been building on a long-standing, solid foundation of anti-Semitism promoted as official doctrine by both the Catholic and Lutheran Churches in Germany.

I think Nobel Prize-winning physicist Steven Weinberg summed it up best: "With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things, and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion."

Richard S. Russell said

at 3:05 pm on Apr 16, 2011

This is a 2nd shot at getting that link to work:
   http://raycastle.typepad.com/raycastle/2010/09/imagine-no-religion.html

Also, I'd be remiss if I didn't mention Eric Hoffer's "The True Believer". It really gets into the psychology of those who subscribe to mass movements. Since it was written in the 1950s, it draws heavily on then-recent experiences with Naziism and Communism, but the principles carry down to the present day, with people like David Koresh, Timothy McVeigh, various skinhead white-supremacist groups, and of course the sad victims of televangelists.

Hayley Lonnquist said

at 9:38 am on Apr 20, 2011

Amen!... uhh I mean... I like the quote. :)

Joshua Voller said

at 6:32 pm on Apr 4, 2011

Great quote at the top of the page. Do you think it is possible for any school to be completely neutral between religion and non-religion?

David L Zuck said

at 10:35 pm on Apr 7, 2011

It's an attitude or approach worth exploring in order to put the focus on getting along with everybody. Doesn't mean you can't leave school and go live your life in your religion or atheist worldview. Like a vacuum of sorts, with no hate allowed? Idealist probably. But some try.

kevin.engel@... said

at 2:18 pm on Apr 8, 2011

Great question, Joshua. I think it is possible for a school to say they are neutral, but even if the school says it is neutral, you will have individual teachers who are either "for" or "against" it, which could lead to some internal struggles. On a similar subject, the military is now accepting homosexual individuals and we are receiving all kinds of training on the topic. Publicly military members are saying the right things, but privately there is a lot of resentment. I think the same type of thing would happen if schools became more accepting of religion in the classroom.

Richard S. Russell said

at 1:28 pm on Apr 16, 2011

PERFECTLY neutral? No. 99% neutral? Sure. The important thing is that they have to whole-heartedly (and, one hopes, sincerely) subscribe to the GOAL of neutrality in religious matters.

But it's important to distinguish between TEACHING about religion and PREACHING it. Religion is an immensely important part of the overall human experience, and I as an atheist who spent his entire professional career in the area of education think it's appalling that our schools are neglecting the role of religion in society. Just as it's perfectly possible to state in a history class that the labor movement helped Franklin Delano Roosevelt win the presidential election of 1932 without being accused of Democratic Party partisanship, so too it should be possible to discuss the influence of Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson on the 1980 election of Ronald Reagan without being accused of being in the pocket of the Moral Majority.

The place to draw the line is when the teacher starts saying things like "This religion is right, and all the others are wrong." I have absolutely no problem with the teachers or textbooks saying "This is what Religion X says about the afterlife, and this is the contrary opinion held by Religion Y, and Religion Z doesn't even believe in souls, let alone their eternal existence." Again, the difference is between preaching and teaching.

Zach Johnson said

at 7:12 pm on Apr 11, 2011

How do you feel about PZ Myers, Richard Dawkins, or other atheists like them? Do you think they represent a good face for atheism?

Richard S. Russell said

at 1:37 pm on Apr 16, 2011

I think they're terrific. I also want to put in a good word for Sam Harris and Daniel C. Dennett. Probably the most straightforward work that sets out to EXPLAIN atheism is George H. Smith's book "Atheism: The Case against God". A really accessible book is Ruth Hurmence Green's "The Born Again Skeptic's Guide to the Bible", written after she'd spent decades as an ordinary housewife, not moved to question the accepted wisdom about religion, until one day she decided to sit down and really read the Bible cover to cover. She was appalled at what she found, especially about the way the Bible views women.

But the best book of all for atheists? American science-fiction writer Isaac Asimov aimed us straight at it: "Properly read, the BIBLE is the most potent force for atheism ever conceived." Once you review all of the atrocities either committed or commanded by the Hebrew war deity, Yahweh, it should be enuf to turn your stomach and renounce him forever as the most cruel, bloodthirsty, egomaniacal, sadistic fiend in all of fiction.

"As a source of objective morality, the Bible is one of the worst books we have. It might have been the very worst, in fact -- if we didn't also happen to have the Koran." -- Sam Harris, author of "The End of Faith"

Brenda Mattei said

at 2:54 pm on Apr 13, 2011

Question for your expert voice: When did you realize you were atheist?

Richard S. Russell said

at 1:45 pm on Apr 16, 2011

It was a gradual thing, probably starting somewhere around junior high and really settling in as a solid worldview by the time I was a freshman in college. During that entire time, I was still doing churchy things in the Midwestern Presbyterian Church in which I was raised. I was a Sunday School teacher, president of the church youth group, passed the collection plate on Sundays, etc. But I kept asking these questions, and nobody had any good answers for them, and finally I just realized that the whole shebang was just a "go along to get along" exercise that I didn't really need.

What I lacked was any source of information or role models about atheism. I wasn't even familiar with the word itself, let alone its history or philosophical basis. I had absolutely no idea that there was an organized atheist movement (or associated movements such as humanism or ethical culture, or even the watered-down religion of Unitarianism). Certainly the church didn't spend any time even mentioning the existence of (let alone promoting) its intellectual competitors. And my parents, both wishy-washy Sunday-only Protestants, would have been of no help. So I was on my own, a kid full of questions with no idea where to turn for answers. (This was, you understand, well before the age of the Internet.)

Jaime Goulet said

at 8:08 am on Apr 16, 2011

Hi Richard,
Thanks for being part of our discussion. Did your family believe in a religion growing up? How did you know that you didn't want to believe in a religion anymore?

Richard S. Russell said

at 1:59 pm on Apr 16, 2011

My mom grew up in Chisholm, Minnesota, back when the Mesabi Iron Range was the wellhead of the American industrial explosion. She was raised in the Eastern Orthodox Church, but it was hard to find any such in Wisconsin, so she ended up attending the Presbyterian Church, which was where my dad had been brot up. This wasn't the fire-breathing authoritarian flavor of Presbyterianism, it was the bland, generic Protestant kind, largely indistinguishable from the Congregationalists and Methodists, with somewhat worse hymns than the Lutherans. I was your basic good, well-behaved kid, so I went along with what the folx told me, including going to Sunday School and then, when I got older, regular church services.

But I was also inquisitive, really into science and science fiction, and I kept asking questions that nobody had the answers to. For instance, one day near Xmas we were reading Biblical accounts of Jesus's birth, and we got to the end of the very 1st chapter of the very 1st book of the New Testament, Matthew 1:23 ("Behold, a virgin shall be with child, and shall bring forth a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel, which being interpreted is, God with us.") and 1:25 ("And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS."), and I asked "So why didn't she name him Emmanuel?", and not only could nobody answer the question, most of them had NEVER EVEN NOTICED THE CONTRADICTION. And they were TWO VERSES APART from each other! The more I looked, the more stuff like that I found, and it just astonished me that nobody else seemed to either notice or care. (Don't even get me started on the 4 different versions of the Easter story.)

So I was loaded with doubts, but I kept chugging along, hoping that someday somebody would be able to explain them to me. But nobody ever did. That's because, as I came eventually to realize, nobody ever can. It's a book of fables — a work of fiction — and we shouldn't expect truth or consistency.

Laura Rust said

at 2:52 pm on Apr 16, 2011

How did your family take you questioning religion and eventually becoming atheist? (I too question each Christmas the names of Emmanuel and Jesus...why did they call him Jesus, not Emmanuel? No one has an answer...)

Richard S. Russell said

at 3:11 pm on Apr 16, 2011

By the time I arrived at my atheism with enuf conviction to state it publicly, my dad was already dead. My mom was worried that I wouldn't fit in in society, and my sister didn't give much of a rip. Thereafter, my mother because less and less interested in religion and more concerned that I'd picked the wrong woman to live with, and my sister eventually gave up on religion altogether in favor of skiing, which she identifies as a much better way to spend a Sunday morning. So I got no serious negative feedback from my family and in fact flatter myself that I may have served as a role model.

I have an aunt, an exceedingly nice woman, who's an ardent Christian. I shrug. Her son and I are the only male Russells of our generation. He shrugs, too. We also shake our heads at her politics, which we strongly suspect are religiously motivated. She's still an exceedingly nice lady.

Elizabeth Murray said

at 12:07 pm on Apr 17, 2011

Isn't it the same name? Like John as Juan?

Richard S. Russell said

at 12:41 pm on Apr 17, 2011

Christianity's been around for about 2000 years. Many questions about it have come up during that time. This has given its promoters, defenders, apologists, and beneficiaries about the same amount of time to come up with answers to those questions. Most of the answers make no more sense than the original texts, but the fact that there purports to be an answer of SOME sort usually suffices for those who were inclined to believe the stuff in the 1st place.

That's the long answer to your question. The short answer is "no".

Katherine Buhr said

at 10:16 am on Apr 16, 2011

Hi Richard,

Thank you for sharing. How do you feel about the current use of the pledge of allegiance in schools?

Richard S. Russell said

at 2:16 pm on Apr 16, 2011

I am in favor of students learning about it the same way they learn about other horrible historical mistakes, such as the Supreme Court's Dred Scott and Korematsu decisions, namely along the lines of "Can you BELIEVE that people once actually DID stuff like this!?".

1st off, a coerced loyalty is a fake, fraudulent loyalty. 2nd, my allegiance is not to a piece of cloth, a symbol, but to the PRINCIPLES on which this nation was founded. 3rd, it is a lie that this nation is "under God"; the supreme law of the land is the Constitution, and if we are pledging allegiance to anything (not that I think we should; see Point #1), it should be to that. 4th, as a matter of literature, the original (1892) version of the pledge didn't contain so little an interruption as a comma between "one nation" and "indivisible", because author Francis Bellamy wanted to emphasize the lesson of national unity so hard-won during the awful Civil War and embodied in America's ORIGINAL motto "e pluribus unum" (from many [states], one [nation]). The McCarthy Era interpolation of the phrase "under God" not only lies about the history and subverts the principle of church-state separation, it also ruins the scansion of the pledge's meter. It's like bolting a toaster onto the hood of your Corvette.

Finally, a word about efficiency. There are 180 days in the school year, and you spend 12 years in school. That's 2160 total days. Suppose it takes half a minute EACH DAY to recite the pledge of allegiance. Do you think you get any more out of it on the 1800th repetition than you did on the 20th? Isn't there some BETTER use that could have been made of those 18 hours wasted out of your life? What we're teaching kids is that patriotism comprises mindless, rote repetition, and the inevitable reaction is that they're bored to death with it.

may.hsueh@... said

at 11:52 am on Apr 16, 2011

Thank you for taking time to share with us. Have you ever felt you are alienated because of your belief in atheism, if so under what kind of situations? What would you suggest teachers do in their classroom to make students who also share your belief feel least alienated?

Richard S. Russell said

at 2:40 pm on Apr 16, 2011

Hmm, I see that I apparently clicked the wrong button and posted my initial response to your question as an original post instead of as a reply. It's down below.

However, let me take advantage of this opportunity to deal with the 2nd, probably more important, question you asked. Without wishing to get picky or pedantic, what I have is not a belief, per se, it's the absence of a belief. If you'd like, I can explain this in more detail.

As to what teachers can do — and, by extension, what school systems in general can do — I favor the positive approach. Rather than say "Here's what NOT to do", followed by a laundry list of discriminatory, hurtful behaviors (which will mainly serve as a shopping list for bullies who don't have enuf imagination to come up with a sufficiency of bad ideas themselves), I'd rather have schools praise and glorify the great VARIETY of people they get to deal with. "Look, we have students who are good at English, math whizzes, dancers, football players, kids in wheelchairs who can outdribble you on the basketball court, people with all sorts of religions, folx who can cook authentic Chinese (or Italian, or Indonesian, or Ethiopian) food because they're FROM China (or etc.).

Celebrate diversity! Cherish it! Relish it! Appreciate it for the astonishing richness it brings to the lives of those of us fortunate enuf to be raised, not in a melting pot, where everything gets smooshed together into sameness, but as part of the glorious smorgasbord of DIFFERENT flavors, colors, textures, aromas, styles, and sizes that makes this such an amazing country to live in. What a great time to be alive! Look at all the cool people you get to share it with!

Richard S. Russell said

at 2:29 pm on Apr 16, 2011

Well, I'm probably not the best person to answer this question from personal experience, because none of my classes in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, where I grew up, got into religion at all. I was a pretty bright kid, and also pretty well behaved, so AFAICT my teachers all liked me. School for me was a very pleasant, positive-feedback experience. I liked it a lot. That, and the fact that both my parents, and aunts, uncles, and cousins on both sides of my family, were teachers probably helps explain why I spent my entire professional career in education.

But my experience was not universal. If you want to read something pretty scary, track down a copy of "One Woman's Fight", by Vashti McCollum. Her son Jim was subject to harassment in his school in Champaign, IL, when he refused to participate in compulsory religious exercises. Vashti sued on his behalf, and the case went all the way to the US Supreme Court, where it became a landmark ruling stating that the government (in particular the schools) may not take sides on religious matters, and certainly may not attempt to compel religious practices or devotions.

That was in 1848, and you'd think that would have settled it. But no. In every intervening year since then, including 2011, somewhere in America some teachers or principals still seem to think that religion is something that can be determined by the voice of authority, or majority rule, or community sentiment, or some such thing. There's been a never-ending stream of cases where kids continue to be harassed and ostracized the way Jim McCollum was.* It's less noticeable now that bullies have other excuses — such as real or imagined homosexuality — to gang up on somebody who looks easy to pick on, but it's still happening.

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*The leading organization opposing religious intolerance in the schools is Americans United for Separation of Church and State. They publish a monthly magazine, almost every issue of which contains a story like Jim McCollum's.

Richard S. Russell said

at 2:59 pm on Apr 16, 2011

Oops, McCollum vs. Champaign BoE was in 1948, not 1848.

Richard S. Russell said

at 3:29 pm on Apr 16, 2011

An original comment about atheists in society. We have the same variety of skin colors as the people around us. Our gonads are the same 2 standard types as everyone else's. We're tall, short, fat, skinny, liberal, conservative, old, young, smart, dumb, and everything in between. We also come in wheelchairs and on crutches. Some of us are pleasant and funny, others are serious and sometimes caustic. The one thing we have in common — the ONLY thing you can reliably count on — is the absence of a belief in any gods. After that, all bets are off. We're all over the map. You can't even count on us to universally favor church-state separation (altho that's certainly the way to bet).

You can't pick us out of a police line-up. We look just like everyone else. That means that (1) there's no overt basis for discriminating against us but also that (2) you don't realize how widespread we are. Like most gay people, we're an invisible minority. Unless we actively speak up and announce ourselves for who we are, there's no way to slap the "atheist" label on us. But we're here. We're all around you. According to the latest ARIS* statistics, something like 1 out of 7 Americans has no religious belief. We are your friends, nabors, relatives, colleagues, and teammates. We are not necessarily the cool kids, but we're not the demons or the serial killers or the baby rapers, either. We're just ordinary folk who can't figure out what all the fuss is about this god stuff. It looks to us like Santa Claus for adults, but, hey, Santa was kind of a nifty idea when we were kids, so we understand the appeal, so if that's your bag, who are we to rain on your parade?

Live and let live, sez I. And I'd appreciate the same consideration in return.

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*American Religious Identification Survey

Richard S. Russell said

at 3:40 pm on Apr 16, 2011

And one final comment before I run off to another commitment.

There are many more people in this society who have been screwed over far worse than atheists. I am certainly not putting in a bid for 1st prize in the "poor me" sweepstakes or claiming that I'm "more discriminated against than thou". Yes, I'm a member of a minority group, and occasionally people in my minority group have been harassed or victimized because of their atheism, but it doesn't hold a candle to the horrible way our society once treated Jews, Catholics, Baptists, Quakers, or Mormons. Discrimination on the basis of religion is just nefarious, no matter WHO the target group happens to be.

We've gotten so much better about this thru the years that I hold out lots of hope for the future. Thanks to all of you who are helping to be part of the solution.

denise.larson@... said

at 5:48 pm on Apr 16, 2011

Wow. Fantastic insight, Richard. I myself have only known one person claiming to being athiest. It's not really something I have encountered in school or in my career-

Elizabeth Murray said

at 12:12 pm on Apr 17, 2011

Hi! Family is Lutheran and my 9th grade daughter will be confirmed in 2 weeks and was writing her faith statement this week to be read at a banquet this week. She was struggling with it I could see and was giving her leading questions to help her ..... it would have been a perfect time to discuss the possibility of not believing, having doubts, questioning...etc.....but I didn't do it at that time and now I feel like I was afraid to open the discussion..... Any words of wisdom for me?

Richard S. Russell said

at 12:49 pm on Apr 17, 2011

Be unrelentingly supportive of your dotter no matter what she does. Remind her periodically that nothing she does as a teenager will REALLY go in her "permanent record"; that youth is a time of curiosity, exploration, and investigation, trying to find out who you really are; and that almost all trials will end up in errors. Such is life. Intelligence is learning from your own mistakes; wisdom is learning from other people's. Guess which comes 1st?

The great joy of all this is that she gets to CREATE who she wants to be. What a glorious time to be alive.

For yourself, resign yourself to the fact that, no matter how often you say "You can talk to me about anything", and no matter how much you mean it, there will always be some things she'll NEVER talk to you about. That doesn't mean you should give up on it.

Anna O'Neil said

at 10:46 pm on Apr 19, 2011

Hi Richard. Having not really been raised religious, I have pondered the god question for years. I studied philosophy which largely made matters worse. Finally, I agreed to finally just abstain from judgement...and say I don't know,and I never will..easy decision and a big relief! Is there any word or distinction between people who believe there is no god versus those who simply don't know/don't care/don't ask the question? In atheist groups is there debate or divide between the two?

Richard S. Russell said

at 7:34 am on Apr 20, 2011

1st off, let me make an important, if subtle, distinction. Atheists are people who DO NOT HAVE A BELIEF in any gods. A subset of that group is people who DO HAVE A BELIEF that there are no gods. By many common definitions the latter are the ONLY people who actually count as atheists, but we organized atheists feel it's appropriate to cast a wider net. We include among our number, for example, most flavors of Buddhists, who are religious but whose religion doesn't include deities. We include upwards of a billion Chinese, who may have ancestor worship and practice traditional Chinese medicine and other superstitions, but who have not been exposed to the concept of gods in their officially atheistic society and thus don't believe in them. We include newborns and mentally handicapped people who don't have the mental capacity to comprehend the concept of gods. We include people who have renounced gods for emotional reasons, such as falling in love with an atheist or anger at being sexually abused by the clergy. So, in general, if you don't believe in any gods, for whatever reason, you're an atheist.

An entirely separate question is how confident you are in whatever attitude you hold. Those who are so sure of themselves that they can confidently state "I KNOW that god exists." or "I KNOW that god doesn't exist." are said to be gnostics, from the Greek word "gnosis" (knowledge). Those who are leaning in that direction but aren't positive they're right are called "agnostics". Here the "a-" means just what it does in front of "atheist", namely "without".

The 4 possible combinations are gnostic theist, agnostic theist, gnostic atheist*, and agnostic atheist. With respect to the question of certainty, you are an agnostic — you don't KNOW. That still leaves open the question of whether, when push comes to shove, you do or do not BELIEVE that any gods exist. The answer to THAT question determines whether you're a theist or atheist.

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*includes me

Barbara Bridges said

at 12:26 pm on Apr 28, 2011

Erika,
This topic was courageous, timely and needed to be added to the already overloaded curriculum content of Human Relations. Your guest was articulate and your discussion dynamic. All refs were credible. Well done.
1. Research your topic. 5 refs-2 hard copy 25 points
2. Synthesize 200-400 words 25 points
3. Respond to peers. 25 points
4. Introductory statement from guest. Attend 25 points

Jennifer Quam said

at 9:26 pm on Apr 25, 2012

Lots of enlightening information on such a touchy topic.

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